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from Egypt
said:am very glad u like that post ya summer.. coz i wanned to know the openion of parents as well.. although i know what kind of a sweet mother u r but.. its a start..
i just wish for everyone to answer these questions honestly even in privat.. just to learn from mistakes.
certainly, you selected a good issue for a post. Although the rights of a child over his parents are well known, yet we tend to forget them. The problem is each generation carries the finger prints of the generation before them. In addition they are not trying to revolt or change the bad things the generation before them implanted in them "hataha ma wajadna 3alayhe aba2una wa ena 3ala atharihim lamuhtadoon" Huna yakmun alkha6ar 7ata alqura2an 7arab hathihi anaw3iyah min atafkeer wataba3iyah. yajib an ya3ridh kul jeel ma zuri3a feeh min eljeel assabiq 3ala kitab Allah wa sunat rasulih SAAW wa ma 3aradh rafadhahu wa6ara7ahu.
from Egypt
said:Asalam 3alaykom,
Gamda ya eno!!
look..i've always thought that bein g their friend is the master key..
And through that i can feed them sunnah which is the greatest only concionce that could rule their mind and hewarts..and if i did that..my own flaws may pass with out hurting them!!
If i'm a friend who got rid of the carrot/stick behaviour and stuck to love and hearing..they would bare me and listen to me..
It is up to me and i know..maybe that is why i'm alert and get scared when ever i loose my touch due to pressure..
But hey..even that fear means i love them and care ..right?!
Well..it's the hardest job on earth and it's all up to our nafs..
May allah bless us all to understanding our kids..
May allah bless our kids..
from Egypt
said:أصعب و أهم مهمه ممكن تقابل أى حد هى تربيه الأبناء و التعامل معاهم
ححاول اركز رأيى فى نقطتين
اولا :الحب هو المفتاح السحرى للتعامل مع الابناء و الحب اللى اقصده هنا هو الحب من غير ضغوط أو قسوه بيعملها البعض -و هم بيحبوا أبناءهم برضه -بس نتيجتها بتكون جفاء و قسوه قلب و يمكن رغبه لاحقه فى الاسقاط و التنفيس
ثانيا:لازم نفهم ان فيه اختلاف فى تصرفات و لغه كل جيل عن اللى قبله و نقبل ده بشرط واحد انه لا يتعارض مع الدين و الادب
حق الابناء على الاباء الكلام عنه موجود فى السيره و السنه فحق الابن على ابيه يبدأ حتى باختيار اسمه .. فيه احلى و لا الطف من كده
موضوع مهم زى اللى قبله بتوع برنامج العاشره مساء, بس البوست ده شكله كان قبل العاشره :)
from Egypt
said:dear abdullah.. when we say children rights.. the first thing everyone says .. oh yes sure.. choosing the good mother and the good name and thats it.. thats not what i meant in here wala el2akl welshorb welta3leem.. am talking imotions.. heart and mind.. and am asking if its possible for those who suffered with such hard hearted parentes to avoid thier finger prints or not..
and thats what u said about inno its hard to avoid mawajadna aba2ana 3alayh!! but at least we should be aware of it and try to change what we can.. i wish!
from Egypt
said:allahoma amen ya rika.. aslan ur kids r angels zay mamtohom elkameela.. rbbena ye7meehom.. and after all its up to u how to relate to them.. with love or with ay 7aga tanya!!
from Egypt
said:aiwa fe3lan ya 7seen elpost da kan b3d film eltamena masa2an!!
ana mwaf2ak geddan fi kalamk 3an el7ob el3a2el.. la2en bardo el2efrat fel7ob sa3at bye3mel 7alah min el7esar weltamallok elly betgeeb ta2seer salby shabah ta2seer elqaswa tamam..
y3ny fe3lan .. la ifrat wala tafreet.. sub7an allah!
from Egypt
said:بساء الخيرات
باديء ذي بدء انزلولنا بتتر مسلسل لن أعيش في جلباب أبي
:D
يا اينو هانم ببساطة كده الولاد محتاجين العطاء العاقل
والاباء محتاجين التقبل العقلاني
وبس خلاص
Eno mawdo3 7elo kteer w fe3lan ma3ek 7a2.
A3teqed eno e7na kteer bne7ky 3n ber elwaledain w bnensa ber el2abna2 !
Eno, mahma kana kalamuna 3an bir elwalidayn falan yufeehuma 7aqahuma. Biru Aalwalidayn yantahi beljanah aw annar.biru alawalidayn ba3ada al2yman billah, Walakin biru Alabna2 laysa fi nafs almartaba. tilka khawa6ir a7babtu an athkuraha fi hatha albab
from Egypt
said:انت كده محتاج تترات عالم البحار ببساء الخير بتاعتك دي!!ـ
بس و الله يا عبد الرحمن رأيك منطقي فعلا و عاقل على غير العاده.... انت عيان؟؟؟
from Egypt
said:ana bardo da e7sasy ya 7ala.. inno el2etneen mortabeteen beb3d geddan so we always have to relate them to each other to achieve better family relations..
from Egypt
said:يا عبد الله انا بابذل مجهود لا يصدقه عقل في قراية اللغة العربية الفصحى بالانجليزي..!!ـ
بس فهمت قصدك الحمد لله.. عندك حق طبعا في نقطة اهمية بر الوالدين و ده لا خلاف عليه انما السؤال هنا.. هل يمكن ان نتحصل على بر للوالدين بدون بر الابناء؟؟ يعني الولاد هايبروا اهلهم ازاي لو الاهالي دول ماعرفوش يعاملوا الولاد دول كويس و علموهم الاول يعني ايه حب و احتواء؟؟!؟
from Jordan
said:مرحبا ...
بر الأبناء .. حلو
و ظيفة الأب و الأم مش بس انهم يخلفوا كمان يكونوا قد المسؤولية هاي .. لازم يقدمولهم الحنان و الحب و الرعاية و كل اشي عشان يطلعوا أحسن الناس :)
و يكونوا أفراد منتجة في المجتمع !!!
حلو البوست تبعك
from Egypt
said:ana asmy amira we 3andi 12 years old, besara7a ana fi 7agat kteer me2aidaki feeha we fi 7agat la2 zay masalan an homa ahlna 2ah bas mesh 7oreen feena,bel 3aks dool law makanoosh 7oreen feena al donia hat5rab we al nas kolha hatb2a 2lt al 2db ana 2sdy horeen feena ya3ni mesh ysaba7ona be 3al2a we ymasoona b3al2a ba sal mafrood ya3mlo keda bas da law 3'ltna tab3an 7a2ohom ya3ni maisboosh 3ialhom keda y3mlo al 3aizeeno di hatb2a taree2a 3'lat 5als we ba3den bardo al om t3bt awy 3ashana we 3ashan ra7tna we sa3adtna yb2a 22l 7aga n3mlha anna nsbha 7ora feena t3ml al 3aizah bra7tha 7a2aha t3ml ally 3aiza feena mesh moshkla ,we 3ala 2d al bta3mlo ma3ana ndeeha ana walahy mesh ba2ool kalam hags wala 3amla 7akeema bas da f3lan al almafrood y7sal. "wala ana 3'ltana"
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Really nice post ya Enas!!
Every person in this world has rights and obligations...anyone...even parents towards their children, they have obligations and rights. I think not too many parents realize this point and they deal with their children as an item they own! while in reality children (whether old or young) are not owned by anyone, they are their own person..we, including children, are all humans after all and we should be treated and treat others as humans first and then as parents, children, employees, teachers or students and so on... depending on what this particular human is to others dealing with him/her in certain moments of the day and life.