I know we almost never been in that emotional area before, and i know u somehow concider it kind of weakness showing emotions and sharing tears.. but i also know that deep inside you .. u have that unlimited love and care!
I always wished u would've said something .. i wished u would've hugged me and told me u love me, but u didnt.. and i thought it doesnt matter to me anymore!
I heard that old song last night, it made me cry and i know when ever u hear it, it makes u cry too.. inspite of all our diffeneces we r so alike in many things!!
I tryed to call and tell u how much i love u but i couldnt.. i didnt know how to say it , but i know u felt it somehow but u couldnt say anything as well!!
WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE THAT HARD TELLING U THAT I LOVE U AND I MISS U.. MUM...
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from Sweden
said:u sure know that old song .. 3emad 3bd el7aleem, ana mahma khadetny elmodon.. waga3et 2alby ya rika..
but am still listening to it and crying bardo!!!
from Egypt
said:asalam 3alaykom,
ya benty di tewga3 2alb balad..
2aboos 2edek kalemeha..w 2ooly men ma tefakary..zamanha betfakar nafs el 7aga..
basita..doosy stop!
from United States
said:don't ever waste a chance to say "I love you". to the people you love
I'm like you. I want to pick up the phone and call my loved ones and say I love you ... I wish you were here with me
from Sweden
said:i always had that hard time saying such things.. but am trying, but believe me its not that easy!!
thanx Qwaider
That is really full of feelings!
Emoussa what Qwaider has said is deeply right , you have to try and you have to make it easy.
You dont own the time so dont wait ... Just do it!
from Sweden
said:i appreciate ur words 7ala and am really trying hard to do it as soon as possible.. i just wish Allah will give me the time ans the strenth for it..
from Germany
said:GREAT I found your blog (through the caller) - it's BEAUTIFUL!! I want to tell you that it is NOT AT ALL a sign of weakness to show emotions and shed tears ... the opposit - who "dares" to do that is STRONG in my eyes!
Just an idea to your dilemma which I DO understand very well ... how about a card .. or little gift to send, together with a letter in which you will tell her how you feel? Your mom will LOVE IT and FEEL how much you love her! She will understand how difficult it is to SAY that ...
I am blessed - I have two grown sons and they have no problem at all to tell me - together with a BIG bear-hug (which makes me count my ribs afterwards - they tower me by MORE than a head!!) that they love me!
You know, I learned the hard way how important it is NOT to waist any time to say - or show - that ... YOU CAN DO IT!!!
from Sweden
said:dear Karin.. am grateful for the idea.. i'll try it soon insha2allah.
and for ur sons, i think its ur reward coz its all coming from u .. u raised them up to be comfort with their feelings, but unfortunatly not all mums does so :o(
God bless u all.
from Germany
said:Good luck emoussa!!
You're right, not all moms do that - there are still moms who think it's embarassing if a boy cries! She has no idea what she ultimately does to the boy ... I find that VERY bad!
Take care!!
from United States
said:Emoussa, Let me give you an example.
My aunt was living well. And I would call her from time to time maybe not all that often.
Then she got sick, and went into a coma, and it has been a month since I last spoke to her. And now, I don't have a chance to do that anymore. And I'm like you away from my family. So I was in so much pain and regret over it. Because I Wasted the chances I had to call her, comfort her, and tell her I love her..
from Sweden
said:i wish ur aunt a speedy recovery, shafaha allah w3afaha wkoll marda elmoslimeen..
insha2allah u'll have a second chance to tell her what u want..
from Egypt
said:The hardest feeling is to block the expression of our feelings.
We can express our love in many ways, not a must to say it "i love u".
For the mother, i do beleave that
we have to say it.
Try to, i m sure u will feel the greatest feeling u will ever get.
from Sweden
said:thank u Hussien for ur incouraging comment and believe me i truly understand how can a person hold in his feelins and never say anything about it..!!
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from Egypt
asalam 3alaykom,
i don't know what to say ..i'm speachless and that's rare!
pick up th phone and say it ans cry your self to sleep tonight,to be able to rest forever..
(the biggest hug ever..from me)