بـاحـلم علـــى قـدّي....ـ
in my life i had lots of hopes and wishes.. its nice to have wishes but its hard to loose them.. but i wish not to change..!!

i am strong..!

 
i really hate it when am hurt and they keep saying dont cry.. its ok.. u r hurt but be strong and dont cry..!
i hate it when am mad at someone and they keep saying .. its ok.. u r sad but be strong and dont let him feel u r sad or mad..!
i hate it when they keep saying.. u can handle it.. u can take anything.. nothing can break u.. u r strong!
hell no am not!! and i dont wanna be that strong!! who said i cant be who i am and how i am..?! who said i have to be strong thier way.. to only feel what they allow me to feel and to only do what they accept from me to do!!
who told them that.. who said i cant be hurt and who said i cant break down and cry.. why shouldnt i show my pain, show my anger, why shouldnt i blame the one who hurt me.. why shouldnt he feel guilty for what he did, why cant he apologize.. who said am a hard stone!!!
its my right to cry when u hurt me.. to screem when u wound me.. to blame u when u do me wrong.. its my right to have an apology when i deserve it..!
am just a simple normal femal with some rights.. and am strong enough not to drop those rights for ur sake... whom ever u r..
sorry...

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On September, 09, 2006 8:06 PM , thecaller
from Egypt said:

Asalam 3alaykom,
NO one!!
Scream and cry and say and claim..you are a human and it's your right.
And believe me when you do..you'll never make a stupid dicision..you'll be so reasonable and rational and everything will be o.k
Come on..call me bad names or take a swing at me:)
i'll take it:)
i love you:)


On September, 09, 2006 9:23 PM , hamede
from United States said:

We are all human.


On September, 10, 2006 12:28 AM , Summer
from United States said:

crying and protesting about an unjust situation will empower you even more..so cry, scream and protest...beneath this strong facade there is a true female that will fight fiercely...don't you ever give in!


On September, 10, 2006 1:23 PM , Aliaa
from Egypt said:

That's why many poeple may not talk again to each other,,, u r mad at the one u had been hurted by,,,, he doesn't know or may be he knows but not sure and u treat him strangely...tell him u hurted me cry scream at him...if u didn't gain u won't lose but actually u'll always gain...


On September, 11, 2006 10:30 AM , sarah
from Lebanon said:

Dear Eno
i think you can cry when you feel you wanna cry,you can be sad when you feel theres somthing that makes you sad,you can be how ever you want when ever you want and that wont make you other than strong,being strong in my point of view is being what you feel ,not what others want you to feel or BE

nice shot sis ,leave u in peace


On September, 11, 2006 10:43 AM , 7ala said:

Eno you have the right to do all of this and to say all of this and no one has the right to ask you to stop doing it.

But you know where the real problem is?

When YOU are the one who says so to yourself ... then what should you do ?!


On September, 11, 2006 11:04 AM , Eno..
from Sweden said:

ya rika ya gameela.. rbbena ykhalliky ya sotto hanem wdont worry insha2allah i will start calling u bad names soon :P


On September, 11, 2006 11:05 AM , Eno..
from Sweden said:

yes we r Hamede.. but some ppl doesnt notice that fact!!


On September, 11, 2006 11:08 AM , Eno..
from Sweden said:

thanx summer 7abebty.. rbbena yekremek.


On September, 11, 2006 11:11 AM , Eno..
from Sweden said:

thanx for ur visit Aliaa.. and u r absolutly right but aome times u r too hurt to speak it up.. and sometimes its just ur personality that doesnt go for speaking when u r sad or mad.. and thats who i am.. unfortunatly!!


On September, 11, 2006 11:13 AM , Eno..
from Sweden said:

sweet sara.. thanx dear for ur comment and yes.. i hiope i can be strong enough to be what i feel..


On September, 11, 2006 11:17 AM , Eno..
from Sweden said:

yes 7ala .. u r right dear.. its a bigger problem when we r brought up to think its week to cry or bad to be sad or mad.. u r very much right.. i hope am not doingthis to myself!!


On September, 12, 2006 11:01 AM , wonders
from Jordan said:

I have learnt that you can't let go a bad memory unless you let it out.. Scream, Cry do what ever you want.. the important thing is to feel better again.

Leave you in peace


On September, 21, 2006 1:27 PM , ada
from United Arab Emirates said:

it's bad when you were hurt and the person who hurt wouldn't know anything about it. most likely, he will repeat the same mistake over and over again, coz he believes you were not hurt. so cry when you feel like crying, and let him mean it when he's saying sorry to you.it's better if you lay your cards down, so as to let them know that you also have limitations, that at some point you also boil.


On October, 03, 2006 8:37 PM , sami said:

it's hard in here it's tough in here the world is completely unfair most of the time i cant change it because i am not God i cant hate it because i dont have anywhere else to go how is it reality for some one to get hurt with out a mistake and for the other one to be praised with out being known should i cry like a 7 year old what should i do to prevent my enemies it's truly amazing to experience such event what i have i done in the past to deserve this nothing is this real people! i dont know what to tell you about preventing of being hurt because i have been hurt all my life i my brain can not function well but know that every thing is at God's hands he can do ! anything!
may be this things are a way to test our faith in God if it is not i dont know what to say but if it is then we have to respond well inorder to be loved and praised by our dear loved lord he knows every thing! i think we are here in this world for a reason God made us live here because he loves every one of us and he wants to see us every day so we should should learn that betrail was not started now it was started the moment adam and eve went to earth so you may see and surely have seen someone out there trying to hurt you deliberatley thats when you know how unfortunate this world is and how better you are than that foolish person and how God loves you a bit more than the other one and being loved by God is something so wonderful dont hate your self the problem is not with you it is with him he 'they will get payed for what they did 'thats the truth i feel and know.




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